Communicated with PH over email today and asked if she would join us for drinks tomorrow. Her usual answer "can't, cos my hubby will call my phone till it burst"! Her husband dislike her going out with her friends... She is expected to be at work, home or hanging out with him and his friends; never with her own friends. What a selfish man! She knows that she is unhappy with such arrangement but she claims that there is nothing she can do about it... Really??? I think instead of her phone, it is herself, who will burst one day!
Is this about her husband, the MCP, man-with-low self esteem and confidence or is this about a woman who does not fight for her own rights? All of the above and more?
I am no feminist but i think everyone deserves their own space and time, the liberty to do what he/she enjoys... To me, she is no different from a bird in a cage...

So much stories about restrictive and possesive partners, abusive and violent spouse - are these a reflection of love. I certainly don't think so.

However, I totally agree that love is blind, so blind that the many can't truly see what their partner is truly like.

Each day , I wake up feeling blessed by God, thankful that He had sent a special man into my life, not just once, but twice. Like what is being said in the movie "Ghost"

"If you want something badly, set it free. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn't , its never meant to be yours"

Whenever I remember the above phrase, I always tie it back to my own relationship.
He setted me free, and what we can see now, is only "Forever"....

Love is patient, Love is kind,It does not envy, it does not boast,It is not proud, It is not rude,It is not self-seeking,It is not easily angered,It keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil,but rejoices with the truth.Love always protects, always trusts,always hopes, always perseveres.Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.Love never ends.

L o v e N e v e r F a i l s.

Corinthians 13 : 4 - 8